Saturday, April 18, 2009

Our inner fears...and Malay!

I suppose everytime baddin's breathing becomes choppy..or when hatice has pain in her tummy... Meşe (the doctor aunty)...my beloved and I will always think of the worst and become panic...

Well... u cant help it, can you? Not when that year many years ago... baddin could not breathe and my beloved had to bring him to the hospital....that looking at his son...he had even asked his doc sis, meşe...
*is my son gonna die?*....

or my lil princess.... a few months ago...who had to go thru intense tummy pain (that entry in her blog...www.haticeveokul.blogspot.com for so many days only to discover that one of her ovaries had to be removed? The fear in us parents if the same thing ever to occur again...

So it was only natural when she complained of intense severe tummy pain... i immediately called meşe...to ask of which side they took off her ovary on that day....Meşe'z voice turned serious....i could hear her voice scared...her pain more intense...barely able to walk... and i..trying to be calm and secretly..fearfully reliving the memories of that previous nightmare...waiting for my beloved to go home from his night lecture so that he can decide on what to do next...

In my mind..i was praying...*please Allah...not her other ovary... she will make a good mother if she has kids*...in my mind...i couldnt think of any positive things....esp when i looked at her... she looked terrible..she was crying... to think again..it was probably her crying over fear of the past experience...mixed with pain...i mean she is only 8 years old...i dont think she would welcome another surgery!! Anyway...to cut matters short... my beloved finally got home....he brought her to Sema hospital...after ultrasound...blood test and medical check up....the doc couldnt find anything wrong with her...but he wanted to keep her at the hospital overnight. My beloved decided against it and brought her home. It was probably gas in her tummy i suppose... gas and loads and loads of fear...She is ok Alhamdulillah....she skipped school the next day to rest...i even brought her to bahause (hardware store)..to buy red rasberry plant to accompany the blackcurrant plant i bought the previous day!! (pls pray our potty plats dont die..i am a plant killer! hahah) While walking in Carrefour which is next to bahause... she looked fine to me!! What is it with girls and shopping eh??

Yup.. missing i have been from the internet world... I have been staying away from it...dunno why..I have missed hopping to all my friends' blogs... but i cant blog hop yet (sorry)....So many things has happened...nothing out of the ordinary though...

Baddin celebrated his 7th birthday last 6th of April.... he got 3rd place in the swimming contest among the first grade students in his school...

Hatice...well... she strained her ankle...missed school a couple of days these 2 weeks...got tummy pain....and she finally realises that i will always scream at her coz shez the eldest! hahahaha (kiddo..feel free to find another mom)

Educationally... they both have got their mid term report cards....Good or bad?... Good i suppose....
Will update their blogs next week...need to scan many papers...

Pakize the cat now demands me to bring her to walk in her cage every morning.... she will start licking my face or bite me up softly to wake me up starting 4 am every morning.....in fact..as i am typing right now.. she is right next to me waiting paitently for a stroll outside... heheh

my beloved is as usual busy working...

ı am also busy making myself busy even when i am not busy!!! hahahaha

Remember my plea in a few previous entries about my kids and their learning Bahasa Melayu? my national language?

Upon reading my entry... a very sweet blogger sister Kak Rina (http://silversarina.blogspot.com/) had sent me a sms saying that she had sent some books to me and that she took my addy from kak elle (http://www.kakelle2.blogspot.com/)...

We thought the books got lost ...finally... last week...the books reached my place....

THANK YOU KAK RİNA!! SEMOGA ALLAH MEMBALAS JASA AKAK (since she refused to let me pay)...

And yup... 2 days a weekday... my kids are now systematically and very slowly.... learning...
Malay...
English phonics..(they sort of got confused with the ABC pronounciation between turkish style and roman style)
Quran....

3 in 1 heheh

I was actually suprised to see how eager they r to learn to read my mother tongue... they were laughing... and adding a few words that they already know in Malay to each other....

for example...we learned..

ini (this)
ibu (mother)
Abu (a boys name)

ini ibu abu

means...

This is abu's mother

and what did hatice said?

*ini ibu kuching!* (pointing at me!)
(this is the cat's mother)

heheh

Another instance... baddin always teased hatice on the words *kakak* in Malay which means elder sister...
Unfortunately... *kaka* in Turkish means *stool*..well.. u know...the waste u takeout of ur body after the big toilet??

He would tease his sister laughingly.. sen kaka sın!! (u r kaka ehem stool)...
and she would deny... *no..no!! i am *along*!...

Along is the title u give to the eldest sister....

how creative kids can be eh?? hahahahaha
My Funny funny kids..
Hatice and her dream home...
for a school project...
Baddin with the first medal he won after the swimming competition..
Bacalah Anakku
A set of Malay language learning books...
THANK YOU KAK RİNA!
A set of books to guide me with the teaching of my kid's Quran lesson
(gee...i have almost forgotten to read jawi! hahaha)
Again...from KAK RİNA
Read easy phonics...
Wonderful for introducing the ABC and phonics to kids...
again...from Kak Rina..

I think that i have to agree that whenever we are trying to good things... like trying to teach our kids his book or teaching malay or english....Allah will ease our way somehow..in this case... HE sent selp in the form of Kak Rina and her Kindness....
Allah Razı Olsun...
and my eyes water....
Thank You for hopping by. Hope to see you again soon... :0)

19 Comments:

Blogger sYaNa said...

Salam Simah :o)

How is Hatice now? I hope she's feeling better.

Happy birthday to Baddin (belated). He's already 7yo? He's growing up fast. Congratulations on his 3rd place (dpt bronze medal?) for the swimming competition.

Lamanya Syana nak visit, sorry. I've stopped blogging for the time being ... sort of lost my mojo. Trying to find it back, though.

Anyway ... take care :o)

ppssst ... tak masuk FB ke? If you are on FB, I'm on it too. Look for Syaliza Abd Rahman :o)

April 18, 2009 at 12:57 PM  
Blogger silversarina said...

salam,

Semoga anak2 Simah sihat InsyaAllah. sekejap je dah bertambah usia Baddin...happy belated birthday !!


Tak aci tau,janji tak nak publish nama glamor akak ...anyway, akak harap buku2 tu dapat membantu .... kelakar pulak kakak dan kaka tu ..hehehe.

April 18, 2009 at 2:13 PM  
Anonymous natynby said...

salam simah,,,akak lama juge tk singgah blog nie..happy birthday to baddin,,akakpun balik nanti kena beli juge buku2 dlm gmbr2 tu utk nadia.
akak brdoa agar simah keluarga diberi kekuatan dan kesabaran dlm mnghadapi apa2 jua keadaan.

k.natrah

April 19, 2009 at 12:16 AM  
Blogger Izhal said...

Salam Simah,

Bagus buku2 tu... Kalau baddin ngan akak dia mahir BM, balik malaysia susah orang2 nak tipu...

Oh, mesti le bius. Metod tak bius ialah metod batang pisang sahaja ;) heheh...

April 19, 2009 at 6:06 AM  
Blogger Mama Rock said...

simah, next time you come back, saya boleh berbahasa melayu dengan hatice dan baddin...then i can rate you as a teacher...hahaha! just kidding!

April 19, 2009 at 3:16 PM  
Blogger aNIe said...

Salam simah...

Apa khabar? Akak di sini bersama anak2 sihat walafiat...alhamdulillah...harap2 simah sekeluarga pun begitu juga...

Memang betul anak2 kalau sakit kita ibu yang tak tentu arah dibuatnya...berbagai2 gambaran buruk bermain dalam fikiran biar bagaimana pun kita cuba mententeramkan hati ini...tapi alhamdulillah hatice takde apa2 yang serius...

Nak ketawa akak membaca pasal baddin yang mengusik kakaknya...hehehe...macam2 aje bebudak ni ye...semoga mereka akan menjadi anak yang cerdik...dan dpt bertutur dlm bahasa ibu mereka...

April 20, 2009 at 4:32 PM  
Blogger MULAN said...

happy belated birthday baddin..!!

hope your kids tu sentiasa sihat walafiat. takut kan bila anak2 sakit. sedih gila.

April 21, 2009 at 11:13 AM  
Blogger Kak Teh said...

Salam Simah, I hope you and the children are well. I remember those malay books. Kak teh pun beli untuk anak-anak. danm Insyaallah, they will learn.

Take care.
oh kalau nak dengar radio melayu ada dalam blog kak teh.

April 23, 2009 at 9:50 AM  
Blogger Zek Zek said...

Rayyan pun guna bacalah ankku juga. Popular jugak la buku tu. I Almost every kindy use the same book I believe.

Bagus ajar anak2 bahasa melayu...nanti senang buat Badin menantu aku. Hehehhehee...

Sabar banyak2 dengan ujian sakit ni especially anak2 kan.

April 23, 2009 at 6:09 PM  
Blogger Nong said...

Salam Simah, Kak nong harap semua sihat. Happy belated birthday to Baddin... Tell him jangan sakat kaka.. he he

Hugs, take care ye.

April 24, 2009 at 5:15 PM  
Blogger Mummy Rizq said...

may u and family be blessed alwiz! take care dear..

May 6, 2009 at 5:04 AM  
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