Wednesday, July 9, 2008

Am i sombong?(proud)

Yes..that is the question.....

it really drove me mad when somebody...an elderly lady... a neighbour told my parents that i am sooo*sombong* (proud)!!..

It was early days when i was at my parents.... me n baddin outside on the street near my dadz place...snapping pictures of the banana tree n fruits in my dad`z garden.... i noticed an elderly lady.... sweeping the outside part of her house.... looking down.... i didnt know who she was...but i at the corner of my eyes....As i was snapping pictures of baddin with whatever green there is...i was waiting to for her to look up n at least look at me so that i can say hi or something... she never.... and after that she was telling everbody in the neighbourhood that i am one sombong.. proud girl!!!

When i think of it... i become fuming mad coz ask anyone who come n chat with me...those people i recognise not...who clearly recognise me...who chatted with me.. or ask questions when i go to the grocery shop....i always chat with them with a smile....while trying to figure out who they r in my head...

n to think that this one elderly lady... saying bad about me to everyone when she clearly has got some problem within her....grrr.........i know who i am....i dont need to prove who i am to anybody...

The soothing point is.... when my mom ask the grocer wife who looks after the grocery store ...curious whether she thinks that i am sombong... or proud... she said....

*No.... ur daughter is not proud... she is just normal...sweet even...chatting with me always.... i think that elderly lady is just jelous*...

i dunno what that elderly ladyz problem is... but i think.... the general rule of starting an interaction is to at least make an eye contact!!! a smile will be great by the way... but dont expect someone who doesnt know who the H*** u r to say hi when u r clearly looking down 1000000% !!! and she... an elderly lady who clearly is a grandma in her own right should know that!!!

Anyway.... i am not letting her spoil my lovely vacation....she is not worth it... but to speak bad of another to everyone like that when it is not the truth... that is really not nice.... definitely not nice at all....




Thank You for hopping by. Hope to see you again soon... :0)

16 Comments:

Blogger k.d said...

Simah..memang marah kan bila orang kata belakang gitu. I dah kena dah...kawan pulak tu buat gitu. Tapi kan...hubby kata... senyum je kat dia. Maafkan dia coz dia tak kenal kita ten mengata lak. Kan tak pasal-pasal dapat dosa ye tak. Hehehe....

Anyway, peduli le... people who knows you will defend you...and you will know who your friends are.

Take care Simah

July 9, 2008 at 9:52 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

laaa apasal la makcik tu kata you sombong pulak...kalau i kan simah, lepas dengar dia kata kita sombong jom pi je rumah dia dan bersalaman dgn dia...kata kat dia, 'makcik, saya ni bukan sombong, cuma hari tu makcik tak pandang pun muka saya jadi camana saya nak senyum atau sapa makcik!'...ha bagi kat dia balik...baru dia tahu sikit hehehee...eh sori simah, ni nasihat jahat pulak bunyinynya kan...

yatie, nz

July 10, 2008 at 12:58 AM  
Anonymous ajzie said...

simah
biar laaaaa apa org nak kata.. yg pasti simah tidak bergitu kan..

I yg lum pernah jumpa simah pun tahu simah nih baikkkkkk..

Hugs
Ajzie

July 10, 2008 at 7:10 AM  
Blogger cikMilah said...

Simah, nothing to loose, dear. Maafkan dia, hati you jadi tenang. next time jumpa, senyum dan tegur... sejuk la hati makcik tu...
Stay sweet!:)

July 10, 2008 at 8:58 AM  
Blogger Alinlai said...

ke ke ke... biasalah tu dia tadak cerita nak bercerita, sebab tu dia mereka-reka cerita... :) cool bebeh cool!

July 10, 2008 at 12:21 PM  
Blogger Kak Elle said...

betul kata cikmilah simah .. I think makcik tu ada problem kot...maafkan dia ok org tua mmg gitu fikiran masih kolot agak nya and lagi pun dia sebetul nya cemburu kat you ada anak2 yg hensem and cantik:)

July 10, 2008 at 12:26 PM  
Blogger silversarina said...

Memang ada jenis manusia yang suka bawa mulut , bawa cerita yang direka untuk dapat perhatian... buat taktau je ... bestnya baddin dapat belajar pelbagai pokok hijau dan budaya malaysia.

July 10, 2008 at 5:10 PM  
Blogger arsaili said...

salam...not to worry at all, you know who u r, and most ppl know who u r.. the rest..just not that important..rather adding spice in our life...happy2 ok kak simah..im also tgh enjoy vacation kat motherland

July 11, 2008 at 7:49 AM  
Blogger zino said...

jangan ambik hati sangat .. benda tu lumrah.. perangai manusia ni macam macam.. ada kelapangan nanti pegi lah berbual dengan makcik tu..

July 11, 2008 at 10:06 AM  
Anonymous Hazia said...

That's classic inferiority complex la,babe.... dia rasa u superior coz husband org putih kot:P. LOL!

July 12, 2008 at 6:36 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Simah, memang betoi kata makcik tuhh....:P
aku pi umah hang dah 2 kali.. hang x reti2 nak stop bersembangggg!!!pot pet pot pet.... hehehhehe

July 14, 2008 at 10:26 AM  
Blogger MULAN said...

apasal la makcik tu? dia yg ada problem kot? toksah kisah la simah, just enjoy your vacation dengan keluarga tersayang..

July 14, 2008 at 12:48 PM  
Blogger anggerik merah said...

Simah,

just ignore her. Manusia memang macam2 ragam.

Enjoy every moment of your day while you are in Malaysia

July 14, 2008 at 5:01 PM  
Blogger Zakiah said...

dengki la tu makcik tu...ala standardla...hihihi

cool simah...buat dekkkk jer. Dia jeles sebab dia takde menantu turki tu...

July 14, 2008 at 7:34 PM  
Blogger chinta said...

salam kenal...
mulut org sampai bila tak leh tutup...so ignore jek org mcm nie..

enjoy ur days in Malaysia..

July 17, 2008 at 1:37 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Next time, just strike a conversation and let your children greet her the Turkish way,too. It would melt her heart and make her eat back her words.
(Alice)

July 17, 2008 at 2:04 AM  

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