Saturday, April 26, 2008

Till death do us part (insyaAllah)


*The moment i saw u cry...*

It is simply heartbreaking to see tears falling down from a woman's eyes.... not that made up tears.... but tears that flew from d sorrow of the heart....clueless and hopeless...and searching for answers and reasons why....Truly Allah knows why it has been stated as it is......but for the heart already smacked to pieces for sooo many years.......how long can d body sustain d emotional torture??? How long before the brain will burst from d pressure??

Baba was right on this one matter... he said.....

*A man/woman is truly successful when he can find the balance and happiness in both of his career and family life*

One if unsatisfied of his or her career path... will not be able to be happy... thus affecting his or her family life as well...

A man....or a woman... if he or she chooses the wrong spouse...that is it...his or her whole life can be ruined...forever maybe....

As for me.... Alhamdulillah... i have chosen d right man. We have our ups n downs naturally... but we r thankful to d almighty for reuniting us ...for what we have...

As for my beloved.... Education is the field he is happy most... he finds his life's treasure and pleasure in his work next to his family life....i am happy with my career path as well... a full time housewife is just right for me

Looking at the tears n sorrow of one so loved.... i am reminded of how lucky i am...to never complain for what i have been rewarded with... for ungratefulness may cause HİS wrath... he can take everything away in seconds.....HE is after all the almighty...

*Ya Allah... Guide us onto the straight path... the path of those whom u have blessed... those who have not incurred ur displeasure.... those who have not gone astray*
It is with baba's words in mind that i truly pray that
my lil sister Yana
who will be married
this coming 26th July 2008..
(Zaimlar...davetlar size vereceğim bu pazar :0))
has found d right man to be her husband even though he is 2 years younger than she is...
My prayers for ur happiness always lil sis!
It was also a day...23 nisan.. a day of celebration of Children's day that we went out as a family...
it warmed my heart to see how my beloved was hugging d kids while telling them d history of
Ayub Al Ansari...of how his graveyard happens to be here...
Of course Waikiki encyclopedia...fails to mention that Aq-Shamsuddin, the Sheikh of Ottoman Sultan Mehmed II (ruled 1444 - 1446) discovered the grave thru a dream. Abu Ayyub went to his dream... told him d exact spot where his grave was/is and asked for a mosque to built next to it..known at present day as Eyyub Camii...one of d places i love best...a place where it brings me peace and calmness to my heart...
his turbesi... his graveyard

the foot print of the prophet Muhammad (SAW)
-d silver plate-
located at the area of d graveyard...

A time for d children to play...
an open theme park... they had wanted to come here for years... this was their first time! hahaha
Hatice said... *Anne..this is d happiest day of my life!!*

2 siblingsready to slide...yippiee !!
After the slide... hatice whispered to her dad...
*baba... i saw u n anne romantically drank coke from one can using two straws!! hahaha she was jelous!!*
daha neler artık kızım! hahaha sen buyunce... kendin duzgun bir adam bul! :0)

a couple ready to go home..exhausted..but holding on for d kids to enjoy themselves...
poor anne n baba! hahaha

A son... filling the container with water...to pour onto..

on top of the graveyard of his mom n dad...
This was d 2nd time for d kids after their grand dad died...
i was analysing their reactions...Yes... they were much better this time...
what i was most proud of at that time was...(MasyaAllah)..
as my beloved was reading d yaasin... as i was pulling out the unwanted green leaves.. i too followed reading d yaasin with my beloved while beckoning hatice n baddin to join our reading out loud...Alhamdulillah... i am proud to say that they have almost memorized d whole yaasin...maybe they cant read it on their own totally... but together with the mp3 or with someone else..ie... their dad... Yes... they can read it...
People said the dead can hear d living... insyaAllah... their grandma n grandpa had heard them...
and i am sure that both would have been proud of them both...
And so..life goes on...with its up and downs...
As for now...
i need to rush!!
As i have said so many times.... jgn marah yea kalau i tak boleh blog hop! nanti i belanja u all ice cream if we r able to meet when i am back in Malaysia!
Thank You for hopping by... hopeto see u soon... :0)

18 Comments:

Blogger Kak Elle said...

al-fathiha onto your beloved late parents in law simah...love the tulips di atas pusara tu.

Love the outing pictures of the family and you brought them up well:)

I tak nak ice cream bila kita jumpa ... I nak hug that bubly lady...hehe

April 27, 2008 at 2:57 AM  
Blogger silversarina said...

salam blog 'baru' ,

Glad to see all of you had a wonderful time together.

akak okay je ice cream , nak 3 scoops ye simah :P

April 27, 2008 at 5:43 AM  
Blogger maklang said...

Best..best...untung ada suami yang menyangi..Alhamdulillah...

semua marriage ada ups and down, cuma kita kena pandai manage or not..

Take care simah...windu pulak..lama tak cakap2 ngan simah!

April 27, 2008 at 7:34 AM  
Blogger D said...

alo agony aunt,
hehehe... kasut dah basuh lom?

hugs

April 27, 2008 at 2:39 PM  
Blogger Zakiah said...

simahhhhhhhhhh

pekabar hang? lama nyerrrrr tak datang siniiii

April 28, 2008 at 1:22 PM  
Anonymous Hazia said...

Simah,
Nanti let me know your plans for your sis' wedding. I rasa u mesti busy melayan tetamu hari tu, so maybe better for us to meet before or after. Org Turki takyah help out with preparation kot, hehe.. Kalau u singgah KL pun, ok gak:)

April 29, 2008 at 6:48 AM  
Blogger Kak Lady said...

Salam simah...blog baru ke?

Takpe...biarpun simah sibuk...jgn lupakan kami ye...nanti balik malaysia boleh bayar hutang bloghop tu...kena dtg jumpa kitorang... :)

Cantik2 gambar anak2 & ayah mereka...& suka baca semua mutiara kata dari Baba...bertuah simah kerana menjadi menantu baba...

Al-Fatihah to your beloved lated parents in law...

April 29, 2008 at 2:00 PM  
Blogger sue said...

ur kids are getting stronger with ur suppport..

saper kata u fulltime housewife..u ni kan blogger,writer, good chef..apa lagi..merendah diri pulak..:-)

tak sabar nak jumpa nanti, Insyaallah

April 30, 2008 at 10:27 AM  
Blogger Kaklong Syikin said...

saalam,

al fatihah utk arwah bapa mertua simah.

moga simah dan suami kekal bahagia..till death do us part kata org..amin

April 30, 2008 at 10:56 AM  
Blogger MULAN said...

al-fatihah...

simaaahhh..!! tak mau mai terengganu kaa..??? huwaaa... sini pon ada ice cream nooorrr..

April 30, 2008 at 6:54 PM  
Blogger tulipurple said...

al fatihah to ur beloved late parent.
sis...sy terharu membaca yg ur kids dah bley hafaz yaasin...well done!
aduishhh...bederau tgk tulips di pusara itew...gerammmnye.bley tak bw balik tulips tuk sy nnt,sy takmo asikrim lah?ihiks'...mama sy duk kat bertam tu jer... :)

May 2, 2008 at 11:54 AM  
Blogger arsaili said...

salam, bila akak balik msia?

May 4, 2008 at 9:40 AM  
Blogger anggerik merah said...

Simah dear,

nice word from your late father in law. Very very true what he said.

And I luv those lovely pictures of your family..

Hope to meet you even for a short while when you are bac to Msia for yr sis's wedding.

Take care!

May 5, 2008 at 7:27 AM  
Blogger Mummy Rizq said...

dont forget to ctc me when you are back in malaysia..

and as for the kids... memang kita happy kalau kita dapat tengok derang happy kan.. nothing compares!

May 5, 2008 at 9:13 AM  
Blogger Alinlai said...

hang dok kira hari la kan skrg ni :) apa2 pun harap semuanya selamat... dan dpt la jumpa hang kat mana2 nanti....

May 5, 2008 at 10:05 AM  
Blogger simah said...

kak elle
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thanks...amin... :0)

insyaAllah kit jump yek...klau tk ada aral melintang...i pun nk buli u suruh masak! hahaha
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silversrina
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akak... nak 6 pun bolehh :0)

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mak lang
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betul tu kak...

saya pun rindu sembang ngan akak... lama betul saya tak blog hop...

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d
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dahhhhhh

May 6, 2008 at 9:09 AM  
Blogger simah said...

zakiah
*****

aku siht? hang lak? mesti hang sibuk kerja yek? aku sibuk malas..lma tk pi blog hang! :0)

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hazia
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nanti i call u ms i mat mesia yek? talk to u later...

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kak lady
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amin.... thnks kak :0)

klu ada rezeki kita jump yea akak? kak...boleh tk saya mintak no tepon akak?

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sue
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wei... jgn min puji sngt!! hhah

insyaAllah kita jumpa..i pun tak sure pa schedule we all... sue...can i have ur hp no again? i think i lost it...

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syikin
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minnn :0) thanks...

syikin awak apa khbar? maaf la lama tak jenguk blog awak...

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mulan
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ada sponsor tempat tido kat terengganu tak? hehehehe

cik mulan... nak no tepon bole??

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tulipurple
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bertam?? dekat sangat dah tu... pi la rumah mama u..kita jumpa sis :0)

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May 6, 2008 at 9:15 AM  
Blogger simah said...

arsaili
*******
akak balik 11 june till 12 august...insyaAllah..:0)

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anggerik merah
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thanks :0)

hope to meet u too... ehem...boleh tk i mintak ur hp no?

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mummy rizq
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betul tu :0)

aku nak contact...tpi hng tak kasi no tepon camna ku nak kontact? hahaha sekeh kan :0)

kalau ada rezeki kit jumpa
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alinli
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insyaAllah kita jumpa...tapi dengn perut beon hang tu boleh naik flight ka wei??

May 6, 2008 at 9:18 AM  

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